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Thuso
March 8th, 2005, 01:30 PM
The Spirit of UBUNTU
Ubuntu refers to the spirit of the community. It means that I am a person through other people. This concept is probably the most important aspect of living in a highly connected world. This space is dedicated to the Spirit of UBUNTU - I am because you are.

This week we feature an article from one of our iZania Members.

Being Silent on Things that Matter
By Leutisha Stills (http://www.izania.com/forums/member.php?u=401)

This past weekend, I attended Tavis Smiley's "State of the Black Union" Conference in Atlanta, GA. As I sat in the sanctuary of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church, a quote of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s replayed in my head like a refrain from a song. The quote is "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter." While it did my heart and spirit a world of good to hear heavyweights in the Civil Rights movement like Rev. Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton, or the Rev. Joseph Lowery, Michael Eric Dyson or Minister Louis Farrakhan, exhorting those of us in the audience and watching on C-Span, my mind kept repeating Dr. King's quote.

Can we continue to be silent on the matter of no longer having a free press, freedom of expression or the freedom to participate in political dissent, because dissent is essential to having true democracy?

Can we continue to be silent on the matter of a government whose sole mission is to continue to reward the wealthy at the expense of the poor?

Can we continue to be silent on the matter of not having a guaranteed, fundamental, inalienable right to a quality education, affordable, livable, sustainable housing, not to mention a sustainable and replenishing environment, quality healthcare and jobs that pay livable, sustainable, family-supportable wages?

Can we continue to be silent on the matter of a woman's right to control reproductive choice, or quality, comprehensive education and information on health issues such as preventing the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, developing sexuality, diabetes, hypertension, mental illnesses, not to mention the need to educate about medical treatment of all with sensitivity and awareness in a cultural and linguistically competent manner, while teaching the need for staying healthy, eating right, being active?

Can we continue to be silent on the matter of our elderly - their quality of life, now that they have earned the right to retire and rest from their labors, while being attacked on an economic scale in terms of eliminating access to medicines that would enhance their quality of life, as well as sustaining the trust fund into which they have paid in preparation for retirement and enjoyment of their golden years?

Can we continue to be silent on the matter that this government has sought to divide rather than unite; facilitates an inherent contempt for the poor, the elderly, the downtrodden, men and women of color, homosexuals, by initiating programs, initiatives and policies guaranteed to steal, kill and destroy life as we now know it?

I read a book by Rep. Jesse Jackson Jr. (D-Illinois) titled: "A More Perfect Union: Advancing New American Rights" which I recommend everyone to read if you are trying to muster up courage to find your voice and not remain silent. The book makes compelling arguments for healthcare, education, the environment, housing, jobs, to be an inalienable, fundamental, Constitutional right of every American in this country. None of these factors should be given to the few, or the privileged, if you read and interpret the U. S. Constitution on its face.

During the conference, Rev. Jesse Jackson, Sr. reprimanded some of the ministers on the panel forum, for going to meet with GeeDubya and implying to him that the only issues of importance to African-Americans in our community were gay marriage and abortion. Rev. Jackson proceeded to take a survey of the audience, asking us how important to us was it to have jobs that paid livable wages, a healthy environment, universal health care, affordable housing, and quality public education? Nearly every hand in the room went up.

Then he asked us who would be affected by gay marriage? No hands went up in the air.

"So why do we tell the President that the most important issue in the Black Community is gay marriage?" he asked us. "We have been taken out by a Weapon of Mass Distraction!" Rev. Jackson told us. And to the ministers on the panel, Bishop Eddie Long and Rev. Harry Jackson, Rev. Jackson told them, "Shame on you for going to the House of the most Powerful Leader of the Free World and telling him that first, YOU speak for all African-Americans, and while you had the opportunity to talk to the President about the issues that are most important to African-Americans, the only things that came out of your mouths were abortion and gay marriage!" The crowd went wild with applause and a standing ovation, while these two Pastors hung their heads in shame.

An even further shame is that both of their churches were recipients of Bush's Faith-Based Money Pie. All I can say here is "Two Negro Pastors for Rent"...

The issues that concern Black America are universal issues that are important to all Americans, Black, White, Brown, Red and Yellow, gay or straight, married or single, Christian, Jew, Catholic, Protestant, Episcopalian, Unitarian, Non-Believer, Agnostic or Atheist.

We ALL want a sustainable environment, decent, affordable housing, quality public education for our children as well as those who missed out the first time; we ALL want jobs that pay livable wages above the poverty line, healthcare, and be able to return to the communities that nurtured us from infancy to adulthood. We ALL want to be treated with dignity, respect, honor and sensitivity to our individuality, our uniqueness, our ethnicity, our heritage. And the day we stop talking about these things that do matter to every human being on this earth, but more importantly in the United States of America, our lives don't begin to end: I submit that the day we begin to be silent on the things that matter to us as a Nation, as part of the human race, our lives have already ended, and we become walking zombies, unable to contribute anything that makes life worth living.

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter." Remember, when Dr. King wrote that, he wrote it from a jail cell in Birmingham, Alabama in 1963. If it meant something then, how much more does it have meaning for us 42 years later?

Therefore, we can't afford to be silent on the things that matter. The cost we would have to pay is the ending of our lives. And that's a price that's too expensive for you or for me, to pay.

My name is Leutisha Stills and I am a Christian Progressive Liberal. I don't care if you approve of this message; I feel it so strongly in my heart and soul that I could NOT keep silent.

Unregistered
March 11th, 2005, 11:44 AM
I could not have said it any better. I agree with every point mentioned in your e-mail. And, I won't remain silent on those and any other issues that are important to all Americans.

Unregistered
March 17th, 2005, 03:39 PM
I could not have said it any better. I agree with every point mentioned in your e-mail. And, I won't remain silent on those and any other issues that are important to all Americans.
I won't remain silent nor have I remain silent. However, I believe that the Honorable Martin Luther King would be dissapointed with the way our so called leaders lead. First, I say that religious leaders are so far to the left with one concern and that being money in their pockets. I prefer to read my bible at home rather than honor a false person of god. Our so called political leaders are to looking for one thing and that is money. Therefore, there are really no true black leaders as Martin Luther King. It is sad that blacks have been in this country longer than anyone and can not support nor stand together without wondering who has their best interest. Look at the NAACP, a group that was found to assist blacks with injustice. The only way you can get assistance from the NAACP is if you have money or know someone. I wanted to become a member and hopefully to make a change without assistance. They don't want anyone that want to assist with doing the right things. They just want to build their own wealth. It is truly sad to see that our ancestors fault a great fight for what we have gained thus far. But, we are falling behind drastically. Look at our young black men wearing pants hanging off their butts and showing their underwear. It is a total shame. Some of our religious leaders appear to accept those things because of the money the person can donate. That is not a true leader. I can only imagine if Martin Lurther King was here today. If someone would like to comment to me on my harsh opinion, please feel free to contact me at ray.bethune@usdoj.gov .

sky1202
March 17th, 2005, 05:22 PM
I think that indeed if Dr. King were alive he would be upset and appalled at the behavior of some of our black leaders. But I personally think that people need to stop think of leaders as gods and remember that they are human just like the rest of us, and they should have the opportunity to make mistakes in their lives with out being ostracized.

customer77
April 21st, 2005, 08:08 AM
The quote is "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter."

Living in the United States of America is like playing "Monopoly". Do you know the Game? In my generation it consisted of a board, tokens, play money-bank, dice-chance, and two decks of surprise outcome cards. The objects of the game are control of property and accumulation of money. The player with the most money at the end of the game wins. Sounds a lot like our economic system, America. If one chooses to play monopoly he first learns the rules and plays by them. This is the problem we the Blacks, the preacher, the rapper, the Dr. Kings, everyone face. The rules are rigged against us base on our race (African). Dr. King realized the need to tinker with the game and change the rules. He was murdered and the tinkering stopped. Every single person from Abraham Lincoln to Tupac Shakur who has attempted to alter the design of this game such that Blacks do better than before has been killed.

Therefore, being silent on things that matter, although not noble is a reasonable behavior. If we are not willing to change the external things we can change the internal things like accepting the spirit of Ubuntu, I am because you are.

Thuso
April 21st, 2005, 04:21 PM
Dwight,
Thanks for your comments. You are correct. We must focus on "the things that matter" as we raise our voices. The Spirit of Ubuntu is a good beginning. The voices that we raise about "things that are important to us" must begin to resonate. It may appear disjointed at first, but the most important values will emerge if we are not silent about things that matter.

We cannot be silent when we see our young girls falling victim to motherhood while they are still children. It is not a badge of honor. It is a disgrace.

We cannot be silent when our young boys think that being a "baby daddy" is something to be proud of, while their pants are falling off and they cannot qualify for a decent job. Education, self-respect and hard work are still important.

We cannot be silent while the Black family is being defined out of existence. I saw a quote from a young "millionaire basketball player" who said, "Family is most important. I'm happy to see my son, my girl, and my mom." What happened to "husband, wife and child" as the definition of family?

There are more values that we cannot keep silent about. I am because you are. . . intelligent, self-confident, respectful, kind and proud of your heritage.

Amandla!
Thuso

MsEdrena
March 8th, 2006, 09:48 PM
I'm a new member and I'm going throughout the iZania Community catching up on the posts that were here before I joined. I know that most of them have not had anything posted recently, but permit me to indulge myself by posting anyway.

I'm overwhelmed by the ideas, thoughts and feelings expressed on iZania by my brothers and sisters.

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter"

That quote alone brings chills to my soul. This is why I decided to become a part of the Black Covenant that comes out of the State of the Black Union. I may not be a great leader, but I am a VERY great follower of a leader who is going somewhere (in the right direction, I need to add), I realize I can't do anything by myself. I do know this, however, and that is, I'm tired of complaining "in the house," of the dilemma we are facing, "complaining" in a setting where I'm heard only by other like-minded "complainers," and this is one of the main reasons I joined this community. This came after veiwing on C-Span a couple of week-ends ago, the State of the Black Union, which to my shame, has been going on far longer than I was aware, then, two days later seeing a post by Ms Kimsuccess on another site, regarding the Covenant, the State of the Black Union, along with an invitation and link referring others to iZania. I am seriously hoping to get involved in this. I can't wait to get my book! Covenants III and VIII are the Covenants I'm leaning towards as the teams with whom I want to work.

My fellow "complainers" and I used to ask each other, "Wouldn't it be something if we had someone with credibility and the respect of our people, to put our dilemma out there, so that Black voices could be be heard? That would be great because once they began, we could then become a part of it?" We agreed that, just because we couldn't start it ourselves, no reason we couldn't at least jump on the band wagon and support it when it did get started.

Unlike many of you here, Mr Thuso, for example, the beautiful lady who started this post, and others who post on various Community Forums, I'm not an eloquent writer or speaker, and for that reason, have foolishly sat on the sidelines of life too many times, just looking on, or talking "in the house." This time, however, in spite of myself, I'm going to get off the bench and get into the game!

I'll end my post by cutting and pasting the last few words of the sister, Ms Stills, who started this gutsy, and thought-provoking post:

"We ALL want a sustainable environment, decent, affordable housing, quality public education for our children as well as those who missed out the first time; we ALL want jobs that pay livable wages above the poverty line, healthcare, and be able to return to the communities that nurtured us from infancy to adulthood. We ALL want to be treated with dignity, respect, honor and sensitivity to our individuality, our uniqueness, our ethnicity, our heritage. And the day we stop talking about these things that do matter to every human being on this earth, but more importantly in the United States of America, our lives don't begin to end: I submit that the day we begin to be silent on the things that matter to us as a Nation, as part of the human race, our lives have already ended, and we become walking zombies, unable to contribute anything that makes life worth living.

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter." Remember, when Dr. King wrote that, he wrote it from a jail cell in Birmingham, Alabama in 1963. If it meant something then, how much more does it have meaning for us 42 years later?

Therefore, we can't afford to be silent on the things that matter. The cost we would have to pay is the ending of our lives. And that's a price that's too expensive for you or for me, to pay.

Thuso
March 9th, 2006, 04:27 AM
MsEdrena,

The passion and commitment you share are more eloquent than you know. Thanks for your contribution of new ideas and energy to refresh our spirits.

The Covenant provides a focal point for the Things that Matter. We all are looking forward to sharing ideas about the concepts contained in the Covenant. I too cannot wait to get my book, and to share the book with our members.

Amandla!

customer77
March 9th, 2006, 10:47 AM
Ms Edrena,
I also welcome you to the house of iZania. Welcome.
Quoting your words, "I may not be a great leader...", However your writing skill demonstrates leadership. Who knows, you may be our next great leader.
Hotep!:)