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By Brenda Jeanne Wyche
It was a celebration of solutions and change for the betterment of our people. On Martin Luther King Day 2007, the Life and Ethics Committee at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture (BSEC) addressed vital issues weighing on us all through their presentation, Black Men Slain – MLK To Present.
Ever present in our minds and gripping at our hearts is the brutal murder of young Sean Bell who joined the long list of brothers and sisters who have been murdered by the police. It is quite disheartening to know that since the days of Martin Luther King Jr., who fought so hard for our civil rights, that in reality, our people still struggle at the hands of the oppressors and the murders continue with no remorse or consequence.
Police Commissioner Ray Kelly and Mayor Bloomberg continue to tell citizens of the City that crime is plummeting and Bloomberg boasts that the rate of unemployment has declined. But as gripping images of a lady shot in the face in the Chinese restaurant right around the corner from my house in Bed Stuy, and a youth jumped and stabbed in the head numerous times in Crown Heights, and as gun shots ring out throughout my neighborhood any time of the day or night while our children and seniors walk the streets, and as hardworking families continue to be priced out of their homes and uprooted from their friends and neighbors because of low wages; our men, women and children being forced into the City’s horrific homeless shelters and being stripped of their civil liberties as they are imposed upon with curfews and all sorts of humiliating restrictions, preventing them from pursuing their dreams, I ask what neighborhoods Kelly and Bloomberg refer to when they boast of crime and unemployment rates plummeting.
Martin Luther King Jr. Day, 2007 was a turning point as we joined together in unity at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture to realize a new agenda. There is no better way to honor the great Dr. King than to devote the entire holiday to putting our heads together in an effort to come up with intelligent solutions to the serious problems that continue to plague our community. Nettie Paisley, Chairman of the Life and Ethics Committee and facilitator of the event, set the standard at the outset, “This is not a venting match or a rant– but a forum to come up with solutions.”
One young lady very firmly stated, “Parents wait until High School to talk to their kids about sex and drugs. High school is too late. Parents must reach their kids very young. Start young and make them know they don’t have to go to the streets for support.”
MLK Day 2007at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture turned out to be a New Year celebration of sorts. We celebrated new beginnings and metaphorically speaking, young Elijah Shabazz, whose wisdom far exceeds his years of life, popped the cork on the champagne with his explosive presentation.
If our people had the thought process that young Mr. Shabazz displayed in his presentation that night, our men would not be slaying each other. We would not allow our men and women to continue to be tortured, tormented and murdered by an out-of-control police force and a government that displays nonchalance and apathy regarding these atrocities.
Every word of Mr. Shabazz’s presentation was a highpoint. His message was so strong that during his conclusion, I was tempted to shout, “Speak on, Brother.” First he called all the young people up to the front row, and then he began to teach:
“We must be relentless about saying positive things about our people and about ourselves. We have to stop slaying each other with our mouths. Let us reinforce positive concepts and support positive role models. Our Black leaders mean well, but we don’t support them. People talk about Minister Farrakhan, saying we are making him rich. Why should our leaders live poor, hungry, naked and out of doors? People don’t like Jesse Jackson and call him a womanizer. That is not for us to judge. That is something he will have to take up with God and his wife. People talk about Al Sharpton. They don’t like his perm. They say he’s an opportunist and attention seeker. But if you go see him on a weekly basis, he is always doing something for us. All we need to consider is, are these people working on our behalf? We support the rappin’ thugs, why shouldn’t we make sure we have a roof over our leaders’ heads? As long as our leaders are walking the pavements hungry with run over shoes, we’re fine. But when the White man comes and offers them $1,000,000 to ‘tone it down’, and they take it, we call them sell outs. If we would support our leaders properly, they would not have to sell out. It is not them who sell us out. It is we who sell our leaders out. Then the needs of our people go unattended.”
“Because we are so disconnected; so disunified, we make ourselves weak. We cannot unite. You say, ’I can’t get with you because I’m a Christian, Muslim, Jehovah’s Witness, Catholic, Seventh Day Adventist and so on.’ When the police stop you on the street, do they ask you what your religion is? No! ‘You look like the guy that just committed a robbery and you’re going to jail.’ ‘Oh! You’re a Christian? We’ll bring you a Bible to your cell.’”
“Knowledge will kill the idea of murder in the minds of our youths. We must fight to change the public school system – especially since we are paying for it. Our public schools are designed like prisons. Police are patrolling the halls, shaking your kids down like criminals. That puts your child already in the mindset that he or she is in jail. Prison is one big business. 90% of the wealth is controlled by 10% of the population. It’s about population control. You say the public school system is not working. WRONG! The public school system IS working because it is preparing our children for prison. That is what public school is designed to do. If we cannot change the public school system, educate your children at home. ”
“You can be like an ostrich and bury your head in the sand, but don't forget that your behind is way up in the air,” Mr. Shabazz admonished.
Also in attendance were Ellen Raider of ICOPE and a member of the BSEC, Lisel Burns, the spiritual leader of the BSEC and Life and Ethics Committee member, Rita Wilson, BSEC Office Manager, Tasha Paley, Life and Ethics Committee member and member of the BSEC, Vandra Thorburn, Treasurer of the BSEC, George Turner, member of 100 Black Men in Law Enforcement Who Care, Wayne Harris of Sankofa Academy Mentoring Program, Tierra Paisley, daughter of Nettie Paisley who is Chairman of the Life and Ethics Committee, Jamila Merrick, a youth participant and friend of Tierra, Carol Taylor, civil rights activist and author of The Little Black Book, jazz pianist, Ed Stoute and jazz saxophonist, LA Blacksmith was present. Dupree the melodious folk singer sang a beautiful number with her powerful voice.
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Life & Ethics is An Arts & Education Series for Personal Growth and Community Development
In these pressured and challenging times, the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture offers the gifts of time, space and camaraderie to reflect on how we are living our lives.
Life & Ethics Series 2004 presents opportunities to link cultural conversations with practical applications on issues of critical importance to Brooklynites of all ages and backgrounds.
Ethical Culture is a humanistic movement, founded in 1876 and inspired by the ideal that the supreme aim of human life is working to create a more caring society.
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• Making ethical choices in our daily lives
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Learn more about Elijah Shabazz at www.elijahshabazz.com
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